I have been reading the book of Proverbs every day for many years. I know that I have been reading one chapter a day for as long as we have lived in our current home, so that would be six years. The book of Proverbs was written by Solomon, the wisest of men. God asked Solomon what he wanted, and rather than asking for great riches or great power Solomon asked God for wisdom. (I Kings 3:5-14).
I have been reading the book of Proverbs along with other books of the Bible desiring to become wise. I ask God so often to give me wisdom, and yet I still feel so foolish. I know there is still so much more for me to learn and know. There is so much more for me to understand. One of the things that I do know is that I learn best by studying and then teaching what I learn to others.
It has been a while since I have consistently written my blog. Part of me has not known what to write about, and part of me decided that I was too busy. We will know as time goes by if this will continue to be a priority, or if it will fall by the wayside. So many things I enjoy doing and that clamor for my time.
Please, begin this study of Proverbs with me through this blog. I want to learn out loud if you will. As I learn and share the way of wisdom that God is teaching me, won’t you come along with me and learn.
The Proverbs of Solomon, son of David, King Israel:
To know wisdom and instruction, to understand words of insight,
To receive instruction in wise dealing, in righteousness, justice, and equity;
To give prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth” (Proverbs 1:1-4)
The first thing I notice as I look at these verses is how each verse starts: to know, to receive, to give.
In order to give, we must first know and receive. The purpose of Proverbs is to become wise. I am pretty sure not too many people walk around saying, “I want to be a fool.” Most people would willingly admit that they want to be wise.
What is the requirements for being wise? “To know and to receive.” Before we can give out wisdom, we must be humble and respectful and willing to take in wisdom, instruction, and understanding.
How do we become wise? By listening. As we read through the book of Proverbs, the word listen or hear is used 30 times. There are other words that the author also uses that would indicate we need to be listening such as “receive” or be “attentive.”
The point that Solomon wants us to take with us from the book of Proverbs is that we need to listen to those that are wise. We need to willingly receive instruction from those who are wise. We cannot give knowledge and prudence (discernment) to others if we ourselves do not possess wisdom.
As I have gone through various situations in life, I seek to gain wisdom and prudence from those that have traveled the path of life before me. I diligently search God’s Word for answers to how to navigate difficult situations. I seek to have wise people in my life so that I can talk with them and ask them for direction. I spend much time in prayer seeking the Giver of perfect wisdom to discern how to handle a situation or navigate a difficult decision.
So when you are faced with a choice, no matter how great or how small, where do you turn?
As some of you may know, one of the things that I do is provide Biblical Counseling to others. I went through the requirements to become a certified Biblical Counselor. I was talking with one of my counselees this morning and she shared with me how important my encouragement to her to read God’s Word every day was. She said it has been so helpful in her life.
Are you reading God’s Word every day seeking to gain wisdom in the many situations you will face today? Start your day off with reading the book that God gave us so we know how to live in the way of wisdom and not the way of folly. This is the way “to know and to receive wisdom and instruction.”
This is great wisdom, Danna. My only thought (or maybe question) is: “When a person seeks wisdom from likeminded people or from people that already agree with them” – is that seeking wisdom? Obviously the answer is “depends”. How do you know when you are not “thinking right”? We have to know what the counterfeit looks like as well as the “real thing”. Being uncomfortable in a conversation because you don’t know the right answer isn’t being foolish, but wise to have asked the question in the first place. If it directs you to think about something different and study again and pray again and contemplate again – that person is striving for wisdom (and growing). Our children (yours and mine) should always be asking us (their parents) for direction. The people that love them the most on earth! I love when we don’t always 100% agree and they have requested our opinion (rather than telling us what our answer should be)….it’s humble (as God instructs us to be), but hopeful that both parents and child go back to God’s word and prayer to find what the answer should be (and grow). You just got me think’n…..
Thank you, Pam, for your thoughts.
I learned very early on to be careful who I seek wisdom from. Well meaning people often give bad advice because they are filtering it through their personal experiences and not God’s perspective. Thank you for this reminder to go to God’s infallible word for direction which will always lead you down the right path. Miss you my friend.
so very true, Kim. Thank you! I miss you too!