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Commit, Plan, Hold Loosely

“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.

The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord established his steps.”

Proverbs 16:3, 9

Work is a good thing. God gave us the example of work and rest in Genesis 1, 2. Both are equally important in the lives of all. God worked when He created the world, and then on the 7th day He rested.

In our society today, we tend to think of work as a bad thing, maybe a necessary evil. We see no hint of complaint on the part of God when he created the world, and we see no grudging comments when He rested. (God didn’t need to rest, but He did so as an example to us.)

Genesis 3 is when we see work distorted by sin. Work is now harder because of the sin of mankind. “Cursed is the ground because of you; in pain you shall eat of it all the days of your life; thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you; and you shall eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your face you shall eat bread.” (Gen. 3:17-19).

Just because work is now more painful because of sin and it causes us to sweat, does not mean it should be a drudgery. Sin does not make our work easier, but God makes a way for our work to be enjoyable.

1.Commit

Proverbs 16:3 gives us a clue as to how we are to enjoy our work. No matter what we do, whether we collect garbage, are a welder, work as a secretary, have an office job, or care for those who are injured and ill, we can enjoy our work. Proverbs 16:3 says to “commit our work to the Lord.” God gave us our work to do and we must then turn around and commit it to Him.

Too often we struggle with the age old question, “what will I do when I grow up?” There is no place in Scripture that says we must do a certain occupation. God has given us all different talents and abilities and we should us those talents and abilities to honor Him. No matter what we do, if we seek to glorify God in that job and seek to serve those who we work with and for, then we are fulfilling our purpose in life.

Too often we get bogged down with the question of what we will do with our lives and what profession we will embark on or what job we will do. God does not dictate that we do a certain job. He does ask us to commit our work unto Him.

2. Plan

1st we must commit our work, whatever it is, to the Lord. 2nd we must plan. Have you ever tried to accomplish a task with and then without a plan? The more things I have to get done in a day, the more I plan. The less things I have to get done in a day, the less I plan. Usually, the days I have a plan, I accomplish much. The days that there is no plan, I accomplish little.

“For God is not a God of confusion/disorder, but a God of peace.” (I Cor. 14:33). God is a God of planning and order. We see this in Creation as God created the world in an orderly way. He did not make the animals before the plants. He did not make the plants before He created the sun. There was an order to Creation because of the dependency of one upon the other. Chaos did not ensue until the fall.

Just as God created the world according to a perfect plan, so we must plan our lives and our days so that we can accomplish much and live by order not chaos. If there is no plan, and we “fly by the seat of our pants” our days will be chaotic and not accomplish much.

3. hold Loosely

3rd we must hold our plans loosely. Whatever we do, we must know that God may interrupt the plans that we have. If we plan a picnic and it rains, we must trust that God had a plan. If we get hurt on the job through no fault of our own, we must trust that God had a plan.

We must plan, but hold loosely to the plans. If we hold to those plans so tightly and they do not go as we had planned, we may experience anger, depression, fear, anxiety, etc. If we begin to experience these emotions, we know that our thoughts have taken us captive and caused us to think that the world should revolve around us. Things should go according to our plans, not according to God’s plans.

The more we worship God and seek Him and desire to commit our work to the Lord, rather than have our work committed to us, the more we will evidence the Fruit of the Spirit in our lives.

Commit your work to the Lord. Make a plan, but hold to it loosely. God’s ways are always better than our ways, if we are fully committed to God’s ways.

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Go to the Ant

I have been seeing and killing some black ants in my house. I always wonder where they come from and what makes them think coming inside is a good idea. I always see ants in my garden too. I move a rock or pull up a weed and they come scurrying trying to take their eggs to a safer place. We have all seen an ant carry an object bigger than itself. They have been documented to carry 20 times their body weight. If I carried 20 times by body weight, I would be able to carry 2,500 pounds. (If you do the math, you can figure out how much I weigh:). They will travel up to 700 feet from their nest for food, and will follow scent trails back to their nest after dark. Rather than sleep like humans do, they take eight minute power naps every 12 hours. Someone in the colony is always working. They are incredible creatures.

It is no wonder that God through the pen of Solomon told us to “Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise.” (Proverbs 6:6).

Solomon used the little ant as a reprove for those who are sluggards, in our terminology today they are lazy. What things can we learn from Scripture about the ant?

The 1st lesson we need to learn from the ant is that we need to be self-motivated and self-directed.

The ant does not have a “chief, officer, or ruler.” (Prov. 6:7) In other words, the ant does not have someone to tell it what to do. The ant does not need a boss telling them what time to be to work, what they are supposed to do for their work, and how much effort they are to put into their work. The ant is self-motivated and self-directed. How many company owners would love to have employees like this? We had some trees cut down last week. The guy who cut the trees down has done some work for us in the past. During previous times, he had multiple employees. This time it was just him and his dad. He told me that he had a hard time getting any reliable help that worked as hard as his dad did.

This concept is also applied in the home. Whether one is a spouse or a child, the concept of being self-motivated and self-directed goes a long way in building and maintaining godly home relationships. A child who is self-motivated or directed can see the things that need to be done such as keeping their room clean, picking up after themselves, or clearing the supper dishes. A spouse who is self-directed or motivated can also see the things that need to be done without having to always be asked to take care of needed chores around the house. A home is a team effort and when there is someone that spends most of their time sitting on the couch watching television or surfing their phone while the others are busy taking care of household chores, the “couch potato” would be considered a sluggard.

The 2nd lesson we need to learn from the ant is the need to plan ahead.

The ant “prepares her bread in summer and gathers her food in harvest.” (Prov. 6:8). In other words, the ant prepares for times ahead. The ant knows that she needs to follow the calendar and prepare for when food is scarce. My husband comes from parents who are planners, hence my husband is a planner. They have lists for their lists. We like to talk about next Christmas before we even celebrate the current Christmas. I don’t even get a chore complete and he is planning for the next chore that needs to be done. The ant prepares and plans for the future. Again, an employer would love to have their employees plan for the future. Knowing what projects will take more time and planning accordingly.

The 3rd lesson we need to learn from the ant is the need to glorify God through our responsibilities.

A sluggard or a lazy person is found in bed more time than they are found on the job. (Prov. 6:9). When we miss work because we are in bed, call in sick as many days as possible, or are late to work because we overslept, we are lazy. God has given us responsibilities that we need to accomplish. These responsibilities are used so that we can fulfill our purpose in life, to glorify God. (Is. 43:7). If our employers or our families cannot count on us, then we are not glorifying God. Our families count on us to be carrying our load of the responsibilities. When our daughters lived under our roof, they each had responsibilities based on their age and abilities. They did not get the option to sit and play all day, but rather they had to get out of bed and do their chores. The same goes for a spouse. He or she must be reliable and fulfill their responsibilities and not place the burden of all responsibilities on the other. Our goal in our families is to seek to steward the relationships that God has given us in a way that glorifies Him.

The 4th lesson we learn from the ant is that their hands are busy.

The sluggard “folds his hands” (Prov. 6:10). It is hard to be busy with your hands when they are folded. No work can be done with folded hands. The result of these “folded hands” is “poverty” and “want.”  A lazy person will have folded hands that will result in not providing for the needs of their family. If a child’s responsibility is to load the dishwasher and they never do, the dishes will be dirty and the family will want for clean dishes to eat their meals on. If the husband and/or wife do not go to work to provide for the bills that must be paid, the family will experience “poverty” and “want.”

A sluggard is not just someone that fails to go to work to meet the everyday needs they have. A person can be a hard worker outside the home, but fail to “carry their weight” in the home. If they do this, they are also a sluggard.

In America we have become accustom to wanting life to be easy. When we desire ease, we fail to value hard work. This desire for an easy life can be seen in many different areas of our lives.

As you evaluate your life, think about how you respond in every circumstance. Do you want to glorify God and work hard, or do you want to take the sluggard’s way out? Are you self-motivated? Do you plan ahead? Do you glorify God in all your responsibilities? Are your hands folded or busy?

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Commit your work to the Lord

“Commit your work to the LORD,

and your plans will be established.”

(Proverbs 16:3)

I read this verse last month and it struck me in a different way. I have been reading a Proverb every day for years. I love how God brings different things to light at different times in our lives when we need them. It reminds us of His Sovereignty and of His care for us.

When we think of the word commit we think of fully dedicating ourselves to something. God wants us to fully dedicate our work to Him. As I read this verse, I was struck by the word “work” in this verse. I have 3 different things – work – that I do. I have been asking God for wisdom and direction in each of these, but never really thought about committing them to the Lord. As I started praying this prayer to the Lord, I began to see some changes.

God has given me the work that I do. He has seen me responsible enough and able enough to do that work. Do I turn around and commit it to Him? He has given it to me, do I give it back to Him knowing His plans are sovereign?

It is the laying the work that I do at His feet knowing that He knows what is for my best and for His glory. I began to pray “Lord, I commit to you my nursing job. I commit to you my real estate job. I commit to you my counseling job.”

As we commit our work to the Lord, then our plans will be established. It is the dependency on the Lord and the realization that He knows what is for our best. “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” (Rom.8:28).

I have been praying this prayer for my daughter who needed to find a job in her field, and God provided her one. It may not be exactly what she is looking for, but it is a job that will challenge her and she will be using her degree. Praise God for His goodness.

In the idea of committing, we are relying on God. When we do this, we realize our dependency on Him and also realize His sovereignty. We may never understand “the plans that are established” by us for the Lord, but we certainly can use what He has given us to increase our faith in Him.

So when you drive to work tomorrow and the next day, or you get out of bed and sit down at your desk because you work remotely “commit your work to the Lord.” He gave you that job for a very specific reason. Are you seeking to fulfill that reason? Yes, it is to help provide for our needs, but what about the people you work with. Do they know you are a believer because you are honorable in your job? Do they see the love of Christ in your words and actions?

As you begin to change your prayer, watch how God answers and then be sure to follow His lead.

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